Waje Explains Why She Cannot Marry a Poor or Struggling Man

Nigerian singer Waje has opened up about her personal standards when it comes to choosing a life partner. She said she cannot marry a man who is not financially stable. Speaking during a podcast interview, she noted that at this stage in her life, she wants a partner who is already successful and not someone she has to struggle or grow with from the beginning.

Waje explained that she is no longer in her twenties, when people usually have time to build and grow together in relationships. She said she is now older and has more responsibilities, so her expectations are different. According to her, she has put in a lot of effort into her own life and career, and she wants someone who has also built himself up.

She stated that a man should be able to lead and inspire his partner. For her, leadership means being able to provide a clear vision for the relationship and motivating her to grow. She said a man who lacks personal success may not be able to lead in a way that encourages both partners to move forward.

Waje added that emotional maturity, faith, and emotional intelligence are also important qualities she looks for in a man. She wants a partner who understands responsibility and can handle the challenges that come with marriage and family life. She said a relationship cannot work if both partners are not aligned mentally and emotionally.

The singer also made it clear that she cannot date or marry a younger man. She believes there would be constant disagreements because she has a strong personality. She said she may end up acting like a caregiver instead of a wife, which could affect the relationship negatively.

Waje explained that she is naturally a very practical and firm person. Sometimes, she already needs to manage how she interacts with her family and friends. Bringing that same approach into marriage, especially with a younger partner, may lead to frustration on both sides.

She said she wants a relationship where both partners bring value and strength to each other. For her, emotional and financial maturity are key factors in ensuring stability and peace in marriage. She believes that knowing what one wants and being honest about it is better than pretending to have no preferences.

Waje concluded that she respects everyone’s choices in relationships, but she simply knows what works for her. She is open to love, but only with someone who has already built himself up and is ready to lead with purpose.