Rudeboy Speaks on Betrayal and Ungratefulness as Uriel Shares Anti-Aging Secrets
Popular Nigerian singer Paul Okoye, also known as Rudeboy, has shared a heartfelt message on the reality of being taken for granted by those who once received help and support. Taking to Instagram, the artist expressed his disappointment about how quickly people turn against those who once went out of their way for them.
In his post, Rudeboy reflected on the sad truth that people can label you as the “bad person” simply because you stopped offering assistance. He explained that it’s often the same individuals you carried through hard times who will suddenly see you differently when the help is no longer available.
“Sometimes in life ehh! The people wey you de suffer for and carry cross for no go send you… until you stop giving them. Then you will become the bad person,” Rudeboy wrote. His words quickly resonated with fans, many of whom acknowledged the painful truth behind his message.
His post sheds light on the common experience of being used and discarded in personal relationships, especially in the entertainment industry and among public figures who are often seen as sources of endless help.
Meanwhile, another Nigerian celebrity, reality TV star and singer Uriel Oputa, also took to Instagram—but with a lighter message. She revealed why she continues to look younger than her age, sharing her anti-aging lifestyle and skincare secrets.
Uriel, who is 37, explained that her youthful look is the result of a stress-free lifestyle and a deliberate, simple beauty routine. She noted that many Nigerians unknowingly age faster due to unnecessary stress and poor skincare habits.
“When people say I look young for my age, I’m like, ‘DUH.’ Because I’m not doing half of what Nigeria is doing to itself,” she said. “Stress? If you’re going to stress me, I will walk. I don’t argue, I don’t beg—I walk. Cortisol levels: low.”
She went on to emphasize that her skincare routine is minimal but effective. “I don’t use random organic face mixtures that someone mixed with vibes and TikTok knowledge. I’m intentional with my skincare. Less is more,” Uriel added.
Her secret? “Sunscreen, Vitamin C, and Shea Butter—that’s my anti-aging holy trinity.”
What message did Rudeboy share about giving and relationships?
He said people often turn on those who help them once the giving stops, making the helper seem like the bad person.
While Rudeboy highlights the emotional toll of giving without gratitude, Uriel Oputa reminds her fans that choosing peace and self-care can keep both your mind and appearance youthful. Both messages offer lessons on protecting one’s energy—whether in relationships or self-care.
