Kaffy Urges Parents To Teach Children How To Reject Unwanted Touch
Nigerian dancer and choreographer Kaffy has called on parents to teach their children how to speak up and say no when someone tries to touch them in a way that feels uncomfortable. In a video shared on her Instagram page, she explained that children must learn that their bodies belong to them and that they are allowed to refuse physical contact, even if it comes from someone they know well.
Kaffy shared that some people who harm children do not look dangerous or suspicious. According to her, they may seem friendly, helpful, or loving, which makes it easy for parents to trust them. However, she explained that these are sometimes the same people who take advantage of children when adults are not paying close attention.
She revealed that she personally experienced an uncomfortable situation with a trusted family friend when she was younger. At that time, she did not fully understand what was happening but could sense that something felt wrong. Her experience, she said, shows why parents must be alert and proactive.
Kaffy warned parents to avoid being overly trusting of individuals who are always close to their children, such as “favorite” uncles, aunties, nannies, or drivers. She said these people may be kind in public, but that does not mean they should be allowed unlimited access to a child.
She emphasized the importance of teaching children about boundaries, letting them know that they can refuse hugs, kisses, or any physical contact that makes them uncomfortable. She added that adults should never force affection on a child or make comments about a child’s body.
Kaffy also encouraged parents to create a safe environment where children feel free to speak up without fear. When children learn to trust their own feelings and communicate clearly, they are better protected from emotional and physical harm.
Parents were urged to pay attention, listen to children, and watch out for subtle signs of discomfort. According to Kaffy, guidance and communication are powerful tools for protecting children from abuse.
Why is it important for children to learn how to say no to unwanted touch?
Teaching children to say no helps them understand their boundaries, protects them from abuse, and gives them confidence to speak up when something feels wrong.
